A reader asked me how he could cure his Approach Anxiety. It’s been too long since I wrote about AA, so let’s free him of his eternal pain and sorrow. The first time I, “approached,” a girl, was in highschool. Her name was Summer. She was beautiful, and nobody noticed her, except me. I played…
Learning success with women can be brutal. It’s an emotional rollercoaster of ups and downs, peaks and valleys. If you don’t learn how to manage your emotions, you will burn yourself out. My current student is the tender age of 21. Shy, introverted, but highly intelligent and nice. People like him—women like him. But he…
“Tony, I know I need to learn game. But how do I find the motivation to go out?” It’s a very common question. My answer is this: What motivated men to build the world we live in? Women, of course. Jordan Peterson, brilliant professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, sums up the answer…
Why do people whine? To be heard. To be noticed. To be understood. To be pitied. For comfort and reassurance. Mostly, it’s for attention. It feels nice to take all of your anxiety, doubts, insecurities, and share them with someone, or online, to the world. But does it help? No. Not usually. There’s a difference…
In any personal transformation, your mindset is the most important factor. Check out this conversation I had online with a frustrated young man. I’ve highlighted every instance of negative self-image, victim-mentality, and self pity. Just watch this guy lie and bullshit himself through this conversation. Blaming everything, except his own mindset for his troubles attracting…