A few years ago I started hearing from women what I considered three problematic words: “I love you.” To my Casanovian ears these words rang holy alarm bells. They meant I’d be dealing with neediness, jealousy, and women who were what my natural friend calls “Dick Sick.” I’ve since changed my views. Most guys who…
As an approach coach I often meet women with “wifey” qualities. Their charm and easy going attitudes are intoxicating. You just want to keep them around forever. And then I find out they’re married… “Of course. That’s why you’re so awesome.” I say. These women are almost always already engaged, or married young. In a culture…
I have a philosophy: If you believe something to be true, it will be. Imagine this reality as a series of infinite train tracks, or tunnels. If you focus on fear, anger and hate, you will ride a bullet train straight to that “reality.” If you focus on positivity, love, and aim for spiritual enlightenment,…
When you alter your beliefs and lifestyle to become more agreeable to her world, you create a vacuum of neediness that sucks all attraction into the void of friend zone. “But Tony…She’s…different!” I know, I know my son. It’s ok. Let it go. Forget her. Let’s go meet more women. There are ten special snowflakes…