In pickup guys often look for evidence that they are not enough, that their game sucks, that things aren’t going to work out until they magically reach that mystical plateau of mastery.
“She flaked. They always flake.”
“I have to learn to deal with last minute resistance.”
“That girl probably has a bitch shield.”
“I’ll prepare my anti-boyfriend lines.”
We look for evidence that things are going to be wrong.
Instead you should look for evidence that things are going to be right.
At the start of each and every day, I simulate it in my imagination. I see myself being productive, prolific, social and happy.
I imagine women drawn in by my charm.
I imagine potential clients contacting me.
I imagine myself writing awesome blog posts that help people succeed at life.
I imagine myself going to the gym, and being fit, and healthy.
I imagine all sorts of amazing things.
Then, when these imaginary experiences actually happen—I see them as proof:
“Ahh, I knew I would meet you today.”
“I knew I would make money today.”
“I knew I was going to be promoted soon.”
“I knew I was going to lose that weight and make those gains.”
Worrying is simply using your imagination to simulate failure. We pretend that this is “preparation.” But you should be prepared for success, not failure. What does success look like? Feel like?
Use your imagination to simulate success.
Your entire day will be spent looking for proof that your meditations, or prayers, are actually coming true.
Start every day with a meditation on success. Be grateful for what you have.
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