I quit night and daygame. I didn’t stop interacting with women, or doing demos on my bootcamps, or setting up dates with women I met. I just stopped “trying” to get laid as often as possible.
The result was I got laid a lot less, but had more time and mental energy to focus on other hobbies.
There is one thing that motivates me still…European women. I can spot them from three blocks away. They are fit, they have far better fashion sense, and they are better conversationalists than locals. That’s why I’m planning a trip to Europe, asap.
I still feel that most men, if they desire the most attractive women, have very little choice outside of cold approach. For those who can deal with the failures, the flakes, the late nights and long days of challenge—it can be very rewarding—transformative.
I remember the first girl I picked up after discovering the pua stuff.
I was living in Montreal, going out practically 7 nights a week trying to overcome my crippling self-consciousness. After three months of this, an entire summer, I had a hundred phone numbers, and still could not get laid. It was frustrating, but I had the belief that if I just kept on going I would eventually find a very attractive girl that would also find me charming. And I did.
It was a rooftop party, and she was surrounded by about 6 guys. She was 19, I was 27. I ignored the social pressure, sat down beside her, chatted her up, and asked her to walk with me. She said yes, and I brought her home.
At the time it felt like luck. That I just met a girl that found me attractive. That “Game” had nothing to do with it.
But then it happened again, and again, and again. That was it…I was a believer. I was addicted.
It was luck, but it was also skill.
Because of thousands of interaction I became an expert in body language. I became an expert salesman. I learned not only confidence, but how to persuade, how to charm, how to be poetic, how to entice, how to close. But most of all I learned how to think like a winner.
Wherever you are in your journey, and not just with women, realize that it’s up to you to choose the mindset that will help you.
If you’re depressed, lazy, cynical or apathetic, these issues need to be addressed first. If you are overweight, get on a diet and go to the gym, if you have nothing to say, start travelling and reading great books, watching classic movies, and having adventurous experiences. Do things that give you stuff to talk about.
But most importantly, believe in the process, believe in yourself.
I’ve been with hundreds of women, and I’ve been in love. It did make me happier. The whole experience was fantastic, and one of the best things I’ve ever done.
I would like to get out to Europe soon. I’m very interested in teaching bootcamps and mentorships in Krakow, Poland.
Why Poland? It’s a good launching point for the rest of Europe. They have beautiful, feminine women and affordable travel. I will rent an Airbnb, and if you would like to come, we could live together for the time of your training. Contact me. I’m aiming for August if there is enough interest. Though for a mentorship I’m willing to travel to any affordable and daygame friendly city outside of North America.
The new novel is coming along nicely. I’m about 30% through the second draft. After that I will send it to a select group of beta readers. If you are interested in reading this draft, contact me and I will put you on the list.
In the meantime I’m spending my summer in Vancouver, but I’m still accepting students In Montreal, Toronto, and worldwide.