4 Emotional Triggers You Should Be Using

thinkingThinking hurts your game.

It’s true.

A huge problem with most of my students, is that they try to “intellectualize” seduction, mostly in their verbal game. They need the perfect witty comeback, the best gambit. 

Of course, every newbie should learn a method. Think of it like learning a guitar, or a sport. There’s a time to practice method, but your goal is to become “unconsciously competent,” because the real game isn’t a drill, and you will need to rely on experience more than theory.

And now for some intellectualizing.

Women are creatures of emotion, and logic. But their emotion will always trump their logic when it comes to attraction. You want to get to into a girl’s pants? It won’t be because of a witty intellectualism. It will be because you gave her a variety of emotions.

This is why they like bad boys over nice guys. Bad boys are naughty, dangerous, interesting. Nice guys are logical and boring. Bad boys know how to give women the emotions they crave like a crack head craves…crack.

Here are four emotions to spike attraction in women:

Humor

clownThere’s a big difference between being funny, and being a clown. A clown is all about entertaining a crowd by belittling himself. Riding on a tiny bike, tripping over his own big feet. While clown game can spike attraction in women (think of the drunken baffoon standing on the bar with his shirt off singing hobbit songs) the truly funny man doesn’t try so hard. He just points out the obvious taboos that others are too polite to acknowledge. “Did you fart…again?” (Sniffing the air around the hot girl).

Awe

Remember the first time you saw something that blew your mind? For myself, it was my first trip to an air show. Wow, those F-18’s doing near mach 1 upside down flybys, Harrier jump jets, helicopters doing loop-de-loops. That shit blew my mind! If you can create a sense of awe in a girl, she will associate that feeling with being around you. This is what women imagine when reading books about flying in helicopters with rich sadomasochistic billionaires. Though, you can give them the same emotion by taking them to a remote beach, or even a great movie. (Movies are bad first dates unless they’re while spooning on a couch).

Fear

rollercoasterFear, when combined with other more positive emotions, can be very, very seductive,. Think of a roller coaster, or a scary movie, or your s&m dungeon, taking a girl snowboarding, or rock climbing, or almost drowning in a river in Laos (a true story from my novel) will spike that attraction. “He just makes me feel so alive!” Some girl’s even like being choked while fucked, or tied up and spanked, because it creates a little bit of fear (Consensual of course).

Lust

Ever watch those clips of women swooning over a celeb like Ryan Gosling? Yes, women also feel lust, and possibly on a deeper level than men. This is one of the more advanced parts of game—creating lust in a woman. If you’re not in a cool band, or one of the most popular guys in your social circle, then you’ll have to resort to mastering game in order to create lust. You can start by going back in time, to before you were born, and altering your genetic code.

I jest. You can create a lot of lust by employing physical game; touching her in just the right ways, or dropping those subtle innuendos that get her dreaming of being in bed with you. “I’d love to fuck you in the alley, but I’m on probation.”

Emotions not Logic

The best seducers are those who know how to spike a girl’s emotions, through multiple channels, in a short amount of time. Take her from laughter, to awe, to fear, to lust, and she’ll be yours.

If you have any questions or stories about life, game, travel, or culture, feel free to email me. I have ten years of pickup experience, and I might feature your questions or stories on the blog. I also offer free 30 minute Skype consultations for anyone who is even remotely curious about my live, infield coaching programs. 

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7 Comments

  1. This is a bunch of bullshit. if you don’t have good looks and already have great confidence this will completely not work. you cant get a women to have lust for you randomly. you have to be hot. sorry. stupid list. 1/10

  2. Really good article Tony.

    Especially like the point on being funny and not being a clown. I see so many guys who think they are doing really well with a girl they like because he is making her laugh but the problem is she is not laughing at what he is saying or doing because he is funny instead she is laughing at him because he is just being stupid, doing whatever he can to get her attention and basically being her jester, ultimately these types of guys always end up the in the friend zone because it is so obvious to the girl that he is trying to hard.

    I think this kind of advice is extremely important for guys starting out how to learn how to properly interact with women, anyone wanting to properly learn you should really take in advice like this and use sites like this one and http://universityofpickup.com as they are filled with great info, and pay attention to more subtle points like the ones covered above as they can really make a huge difference to your game.

    1. That’s very true. I think there’s a time and place for clown game, but relying on it can be fruitless and exhausting.

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