Abundance Mentality in Game and Business
My last article about realistic daygame odds triggered an insecure asian dating coach to write a 4000+ word rant about me.
He mentioned my name 32 times, complete with screencaps from my very successful daygame guide, I Hope it’s Sunny Out, (which has made me tens of thousands of dollars in coaching income and allowed me to travel the world.)
His tireless work has really helped my brand and search rankings.
So before I start todays article, I just want to thank this sociopathic, validation seeking, scarcity mindset little man for the free advertising. I’m hoping that if I mention little man again, he will continue to share his feelings for me, and advertise my products on his blog and Youtube. I think he’s in love with me.
So today let’s talk about scarcity mindset.
I am friends with many other coaches in the incredibly small international dating coach scene. I’ve interviewed great and interesting men like Arash Dibazar, Jt Tran, Mark Manson, and Dj Fuji. I’ve spoken on the phone or hung out with so many others, from Tenmagnet and Cajun, Chase Amante, and on and on.
I noticed that with these successful coaches, they have one thing in common business wise: Abundance mentality.
They don’t see other coaches as their adversaries, or enemies. They see them as peers and potential business partners. The ones who deserve it anyway.
My relationships with these guys has lead to some interesting business partnerships. I’ve coached some of their clients, and they’ve some of mine. We’ve helped to expand our brands by sharing each other’s content. The alliances also add credibility and social proof.
When you have abundance mentality, mixed with integrity and work ethic, your business and sex life will thrive. When you feel the walls clawing in around you and resort to blowing your victim mentality airhorn, the universe will grant your wish. It will give you misery, poverty, and blue balls. Negativity stinks.
You feel scarcity, you manifest scarcity. I believe this. I’ve experienced it.
I’ve lived both sides.
There are two sides to business as there are two sides to game: The dark side and light side.
The light side of game:
You don’t use women as sex objects. You don’t post videos bragging about how you fucked them in a bathroom. You don’t humiliate them and use them like jerk off bags. If you do you don’t brag about it on Youtube. You keep it private. I wrote an entire novel about sleeping with women, and have posted a few infield videos. That’s enough for me.
I do not want to leave a legacy of a sex obsessed creep who combs the city seducing women and then bragging about it for validation on the Internet. If business slows down I may make more. But most likely I’ll do comedy vids ala Simple Pickup or Honest Signalz, with full consent from the women. Until then I’ll continue to do what I love…write.
The light side of business:
You don’t trash talk and slander the competition. You don’t lie about your accomplishments. You don’t undermine the reputations of others (unless in defence or to expose hypocrisy.)
Karma
I believe in Karma. Treat the women well and they will treat you well. Treat clients and peers well and your reputation will grow positively.
I’ve slept with a lot of women, and had a few girlfriends. To this day I am on friendly terms with almost all of them. If I wanted to I could probably get back together with most.
In the pickup scene I am friendly with almost everyone. I can do partnerships with them. I can do mutually beneficial business with them. Their success or failure concerns me not at all. I’m too busy travelling, dating sexy women, making money and writing great literature. Why would I waste my time bringing attention to other companies? I’ve done this before, and it doesn’t add up to anything. It just makes you look small, petty, insecure and weak. And it brings them attention.
Scarcity mentality is a form of mental illness. It betrays insecurity and will scare off women, it will ward off clients, and will eventually leave you a hollow, sick, lonely and empty soul.
***Having a great time in Toronto and Montreal. So many clients working hard to change their lives and getting great results. Back in Vancouver soon and possibly a remote mentorship overseas. Stay posted.***
I’d said it before and I’ll say it again: this guy is a joke. Briefly scanned his page and as soon as I read “I learned Daygame from the best daygamer in the world..Deepak Wayne” I burst out laughing. That guy is a well known 40 year bold bald Pakistani fraudster / scammer in european day game circles who pays actresses for infields in places like the Ukraine.
His website is so bad he doesn’t even have his own domain. It’s a spammy little free word press site…some legitimate business he has. The fact that he has taken the time to write a 4000 word essay attacking you is a true testament to what an insecure little man he is. Law of Reflection: just like all the SJW’s, Mangina’s and white knights out there calling real masculine men this and that…he is everything that he is accusing you of.
What a shame that there’s now another creepy / spammy asian dating coaches in the city. In the end, time reveals all and this guy’s retarded antics will catch up to him.
Drops the mic.
Just read his latest response. He claims not to need your validation, yet proceeds to write a 3000 word rant qualifying himself. That’s hilarious.
The way he speaks, behaves on video and writes rants like 15 year old girl cussing out reminds me of the little paper gangsters wearing puffy jackets and kappa track suits in high school. Acts tough on the exterior out of insecurity and projects his insecurity onto others; calling others “faggot” and using curse words in his writing like an 8 year old who just discovered it.
This guy might have a serious chip on his shoulder for being Asian as he keeps mentioning being Chinese. He needs a therapist to work out his issues more than Game.