When I was first getting into pickup, one of my best friends, a natural, was patiently listening to me complain about my lack of results, and he gave me the best advice ever… “Tony. You just have to be positive. Always positive.” Recently I sent a phone coaching client on a mission to approach five…
One of my good friend, an artist, and a man who has slept with over 100 beautiful women (and had a few dozen long term girlfriends,) told me, “Tony, you have to be positive. Always positive.” That was his dating advice to me: Be Positive I am guilty of falling into despair from time to…
(A bit of a long one today) A few of my friends are fans of an American, middle aged, dating instructor/life coach/Internet marketer who I won’t name. His big catch phrase is along the lines of, “Don’t Care.” He is referring to outcome dependence, and how it’s bad. I’ve met a few middle aged Internet…
I Had a Work Crush Once I was working in a restaurant many years ago, and there was a girl I was super stoked on. I feared saying anything remotely flirty to her. She had these big, blue, anime eyes. Working was unbearable because my groin would ache all shift. Women have no clue what…
Where are you on the pendulum? Sometimes we focus so hard on the external world; women, money, physical experiences, that we forget to feed the internal space. Books Meditation Journaling Brainstorming Sometimes we spend so much time in the internal world, the external floats away. We get lost in our thoughts, in our work, and…