We all want to make her want us bad.
Whether it’s the girl at the bar, on the street, or at work. There’s some beautiful woman who we can’t stop thinking about, and we want her to feel the same. So what’s the trick?
Last night I recorded a free 1 hour long Webinar. Ten, “tricks,” to make her want you bad. Of course these aren’t really tricks. We’re not skateboarders. We’re just men, looking for love in a brutal dating market.
It cuts off in the middle and at the end. The Youtube livestream tech isn’t quite perfect. But it’s still awesome. Let me know what you think in the comments, and I’ll do more YouTube.
If you don’t have time to watch the Webinar, I’ve summed up the ten tricks that will keep you in her mind long after you’re gone. But I go into all these subjects in much greater depth on Youtube. Like and subscribe.
Here are the ten tips to make her want you bad!
What can you offer her that other guys can’t? Is it wealth, fame, power? Probably not. More likely it’s good times, laughter, and overall positive emotions. Or maybe you know something she doesn’t. Are you a history buff? A great cook? A Yoga expert? You have to find out what is valuable about your time. If you don’t know, how will she? Develop yourself into an interesting man. It should only take your entire life.
2. Social Proof
Social Proof is easily the most powerful seduction tactic. Women desire men of high social status, or talent. You don’t have to be a rockstar; you can pretend you are. Maybe you’re a performer, a successful entrepreneur, or just damn attractive to women. You can also create a social proof feeding frenzy, with the tactics I describe in the video.
3. Open Loops
An Open Loop is when you leave a conversation hanging just at the hook point. If you’re talking about fun nightlife, you could say, “I know the best salsa place in town. I just can’t remember right now. I’ll tell you later.” Or, “Now that I know your astrological sign, I’ve figure something out about you. I’ll have to tell you later.” The trick is to give her a taste of something interesting, then leave it hanging.
4. Future Projection
A Future Projection is creating the visualization of the two of you doing something together. Example, you bring up the topic of travel. “I can see us in Mexico. We go to the beach but I’m kidnapped by the cartel. You load up on machine guns and come to rescue me.” It doesn’t have to be a foreign country, it could be going dancing, eating ice cream, or anything. The key is to make it vivid, and fun. Paint the picture in her mind of you as a couple, having adventure. This is almost as powerful as actually doing something together. The subconscious doesn’t know the difference.
When you’re unavailable, you’re more attractive. Why? Because every other guy is chasing her, desperately. You actually have a life, and dating options. Do you?
6. Limited Time Offer
Are you going out of town? On a book tour maybe? Is your life so awesome and busy that you might now be able to see her, perhaps ever again? This is an old sales technique: buy today and get 50% off. Figure out how your time can be 50% off, time limited offer.
Push-Pull is also called teasing. A classic line is, “I like you, but we’re too similar. We won’t get along.” There are a million variations of this. But what Push-Pull achieves beyond just humour, is it shows that you aren’t that easy. You’re a bit of a challenge. Women love a challenge.
8. Deep Rapport
Most conversation sounds like this: “Oh you’re a student? Cool. You work at the mall? Cool. You went to Brazil? Cool. You want to find out what she, “feels,” about her passions, and experiences. And then share your own, “feelings,” about yours. This will build a deeper rapport than just saying, “Cool.”
Qualifying shows that you have standards. Say you asked her if she works out, and she says no. “Oh, that’s too bad.” Showing a little playful disappointment in her lifestyle or beliefs sets you apart. It says, “I have standards.” If you are authentic, she should start qualifying herself to you. “Oh, I do pilates, and am planning to start running.” Qualifying lead statements could be about lifestyle, or habits, or beliefs. Be a bit cautious and judgemental about who you spend your time with. Have actual standards.
10. Sex Talk
The easiest way to make her think about you at night, is to talk about sex. Most girls love talking about sex. If you talk to her about sex and she finds you even slightly attractive, she will imagine sex with you. The leap from fantasy to reality isn’t hard when you’re right there in front of her.
If you combine all of these techniques you will make her want you bad. And if she doesn’t, soon there will be sex robots. So who cares?
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