There are only three types of tonality: Seeking rapport, neutral rapport, and breaking rapport. You rarely to never want to use seeking rapport tonality. Seeking Rapport Tonality has an upwards inflection. It sounds like adding a question mark to the end of your sentence. Imagine a beggar, “Excuse me, do you have any change?” “Hi,…
[pullquote_right]I can approach girls I like; but I don’t know what to say. – Every student ever[/pullquote_right] I’ve coached hundreds of guys how to pickup women, and literally every single one has the exact same problem: They don’t know what to say. Even intermediate players get stuck. Guys who’ve been practicing a year or more, trying…
Every failure hardens you, like a soldier, so failure becomes a norm and no longer affects you emotionally. You become like a rock in the river, immovable, real. I stood on the pavement, outside the shitty club, and every critical rejection hit me, chopped a piece out, and knocked me down. But this was a…
A girl I used to date was picked up at a bar. She sent me a text with a picture attached of a filthy toilet, brown stains, pubic hairs, yellow puddles. “Ewww look at his toilet!” it said. She didn’t fuck him. Apparently his kitchen was a mess, his bedroom was also unkempt. So clamped…
I was hanging out with a student buying groceries here is San Diego when a cute girl walked by. I looked at her, and she looked back. She had a really cool necklace so I commented on it. A minute later we were hugging and exchanging contacts. After the interaction I said, “Well she’s a…