Like a lot of men, I read many books and watched hours of videos about dating. I also bought many different programs from different ‘gurus’, which ended up being a big waste of money. I thought: I can’t take anymore of this, I must find a way to fix this problem, this lack of skills when it comes to interacting with women. I need someone that knows his shit and that will be able to show and teach me. And that’s exactly what Tony did.
The first day of daygame, I was nervous as hell. Tony explained to me and the other student (whose name was also Tony) his simple, but yet effective method. I didn’t get it right away because my thoughts were going crazy. I guess all the other pick up concepts I had learned in my life were mixed up and it still felt like approaching and talking to a girl was this complicated calculated science; like if as soon as I would make a mistake, everything would be screwed. Tony showed us a couple of times how to do it, opening different sets in front of us, like that. Then we had to try. What is great about Tony is that he quickly notices what is wrong with your approach so you don’t make the same mistakes over and over. Also if you don’t stay in set for 2 minutes, he makes you go back in there, which believe me is way more painful…so stay in the set even if it sucks at first!! After a couple tries I got 2 phone numbers that day, which was a big improvement.
The second day, we had a little speech about indirect and direct pick up and also about the state of mind you should be in when approaching. We did some exercises on the street, which really helped me reduce my anxiety level. Tony was very direct with me, which is really cool. When I was doing something good, he would talk to me about it…when I was having childish behaviors he would also tell me. At that point, I was starting to understand a bit more about the whole thing.
The last day, I didn’t have much approach anxiety anymore, but post-approach anxiety: what do I say once I opened her. We worked on that and Tony opened a few sets to give me examples. (After the coaching session he actually went on a date with one of the girl he had closed earlier in front of me, wow.) After seeing him in action and trying a couple sets myself, everything got clear in my head. Like all this bullshit that you read in books just lost all their values. Tony’s method is simple and easy to apply; you just need to stay open-minded and to do what he says.
I try to think about bad things to say, but really I can’t think of anything. It was awesome. I speak French, but it was not a problem at all, I simply did most of my approach in French. His stuff is really simple, but so effective…as long as you stay focused and that you ask questions if you struggle with something.
When I started I was all messed up in my head, I could not approach any girl or when I did, it was awkward. Now, my overall level of anxiety has dropped of 30-40%, but most importantly I know where I’m going. I know where to lead the conversation and I have the tools to get really good at this. The rest is up to me. Take his bootcamp, you won’t regret it.
Montreal , June 13th, 2014